With female infidelity now at an all time
high, more and more men who are
married, or in committed relationships are
asking themselves this question about their
spouse of significant other.
1. She has lots of close male friends - A
significant number of affairs begin as close
friendships with members of the opposite
sex.
The relationship may be platonic at the
beginning, but chances are, it won't stay
that way. The closer the woman is to her
platonic male friend, the more likely it is
that he will eventually end up becoming
her lover – unless he's gay.
2. She has girlfriends who are cheating
on their mates . - Never underestimate the
power of peer pressure. Adults are
susceptible to it, too. If a woman has one
or more close female friends who are
cheating on their husbands or boyfriends,
she may eventually start cheating, too.
3. She has an excessive need for
attention. – A woman who constantly
craves attention may cheat on her mate if
she feels she's not getting enough attention
from him. She will be easy prey for any
man who showers with her the attention
she feels she deserves.
4. She's materialistic. - A materialistic
woman is likely to have an affair with a
wealthy man because of the material things
he can provide. She can easily be seduced
with jewelry, designer clothes, lavish
vacations, or the cash to buy these and
other expensive things.
5. She views séx as a statement of her
femininity. - Her identity as a woman is
tied to how many men she sleeps with.
Seducing men to sleep with her is the focal
point of her life. With this mental attitude,
it's hard for her to stay faithful to just one
man.
6. She's a thrill seeker or a risk taker. - If
she's the type who likes to live
dangerously, she'll cheat just for the thrill
of it, or for the excitement of doing
something forbidden, or for the challenge
of seeing if she can pull it off without
getting caught. She views infidelity as other
people would view a high-risk sport.
7. She's easily bored. – A woman who is
easily bored, or who leads a dull, routine
life may cheat on her mate just to alleviate
her boredom or add some excitement to
her life.
8. She has been cheated on by her mate.
– If a woman's husband or boyfriend has
cheated on her, she may try to even the
score by cheating on him in return. Many
women who have been victims of infidelity
will indulge in retaliatory cheating or have
revenge affairs.
9. She likes being the center of
attention . – If a woman thrives on being
the center of attention at all times, she is
sexually vulnerable to any man who fawns
over her, or makes her feel like she's #1
10. She's addicted to alcohol or drugs. –
Women who are substance abusers are
much more likely to end up cheating on
their mates. Female alcoholics are
susceptible to infidelity because their
inhibitions will be lowered and their
judgment impaired. Female drug addicts
may sell their bodies for drugs. Either type
of woman is likely to cheat without
realizing what she's doing.
11. She has a reputation as a “party girl.”
- If she's the type of woman who runs with
a fast crowd, or parties all the time, or
hangs out until the wee hours of the night,
her lifestyle makes her vulnerable to
having an affair.
12. She's a séx addict. - Women can be
sex addicts, too. It's an addiction that
affects at least 6% of the American
population. In the past these women were
referred to as nymphomaniacs. This is a
medical condition that requires
professional medical help.
13. She has a sex drive greater than her
partner's . – If her sex drive greatly
exceeds the sex drive of her husband or
boyfriend, or her spouse or significant
other is lacking in bedroom skills, she's
much more likely to cheat on her mate.
She'll find another man to make up for her
mate's deficiency.
14. She's had lots of sexual experience. -
If she has led a very active séx life, or has
had lots of sex partners before settling
down, she will find it extremely difficult to
stay faithful to just one man.
15. She cheated before and got away
with it. - That old saying “ Once a cheater,
always a cheater will apply if she cheated in
the past and didn't suffer any negative
consequences as a result of her infidelity. If
she cheated before and didn't get caught,
she's more likely to cheat again. The same
applies if she cheated and her man readily
forgave her without holding her
accountable for her infidelity.
16. She has a big ego. - If she's extremely
egotistic, any man who feeds her inflated
ego can easily get her into bed.
17. She suffers from low self esteem. -
The opposite characteristic is also a danger
sign. If she suffers from low-self esteem,
she will be easy prey for the man who
flatters her, makes her feel good about
herself, and boosts her self esteem.
18. She views séx as a game. In her mind,
sex is not connected to love. Sex is just a
game in which she gets points for every
man she beds. Even though she may be in
love with her partner, she'll made love with
as many men as possible so she can gain
the maximum number of points and win
the game.
The more of the above categories your wife
or girlfriend fits into, the more likely it is
that she will cheat on you.
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